I have realised another factor I’d use in assessing a candidate for a job.
The ones who are perfectly dressed, and walk to show off their clothes. Real people have the occasional wrinkle, or the top and bottom that are 1 shade different from each other or their hair doesn’t ALL lie exactly straight. Excessive perfection seems to reflect almost (or a full blown) obsession with how they look. This may well detract from their ability to actually DO WORK!
Once again I have been exposed to one of these. Looks perfect, sounds good, but work? Hmmmmmmmm. That somehow takes effort that is not reflected in the appearance.
So I have added to my list, beware of someone with an apparent obsession with looking perfect (unless you just want someone decorative).
Thinking about it now, I have had one or two disappointing experiences with men like that, their interest in sex is pretty feeble compared to men with less perfect appearance.
Reading a few posts this morning started me thinking again. Dangerous stuff thoughts.
Thinking about those of us who really hate and are hated by burny food, I realise we are under more and more pressure. For some reason more people become addicted to chillies and such. Chillies are in every food, even chocolate. But I have been hearing of more and more people who are actually allergic to chillies.
Is the addiction to chillies a substitute for smoking? The need to feel your mouth burning or tasting unpleasant could be behind it. Maybe they are all masochists? Their partners may need to explore that aspect?
I just realised this post is all about sex. That wasn’t where I started out.